U R @ Tom Answers Questions

Here areTom's answers to a recent set of questions submitted to him by members of the AFTRLife Discussion List. (Click on "Discussion" in the menu to the right to find out more about the list.) Updated January 19, 2003.


Q: I wonder what you think about prayer. I like the concept of prayer as presented in Octavia Butler's "Parable of the Sower," prayer not as petition, but a vehicle to help shape our reality. Do you pray, Tom, and if so how?
-- Amy


A: I pray every night without fail -- although not to any of the usual suspects. The God at which I direct my prayers is unnameable, unknowable and indefinable; it (never he or she) is the Which of Which there is no Whicher, and to even call it "God" is a matter of highly over-simplified shorthand. In any case, I've received enough feedback over the years to be reasonably convinced that my prayers are "heard." Prayer is a pretty good way of acknowledging on a regular basis the existence of a higher dimension in the universe, a level of reality far beyond our mundane preoccupations. It's
a convenient, low-key way to interface with the Mystery (as opposed to the more time-consuming practice of meditation, or the more dramatic -- and effective -- interface provided by psychedelic drugs). I agree with Octavia Butler that prayer shouldn't be reduced to a litany of pleas and solicitations. Expressions of gratitude and efforts at connection are more appropriate. If God had a bumper sticker, it would probably read: SHINE, DON'T WHINE.


Q: What has happened to America's sense of adventure?
-- Josie


A: Television. Americans who spend a lot of time staring at TV screens are soon drained of those qualities that inspire and foster a sense of adventure. Entertainment and consumerism are pathetically wimpy substitutes for the rewards and romance of risk.


Q: When Gogol wrote "Dead Souls" he called it a poem. When I read anything by you, Mr. Robbins, I consider it poetry. I was in a conversation with a bigtime national book critics award poet awhile back and he likened the state of poets in America to that of the Indians -- mythologized and all that, but relegated to the reservations called Academia -- pushed and shoved into little pockets without any ability to reach any audience outside of themselves and a few transient students every semester. I have lots of thoughts on this but . . . Do you have any thoughts on the state of poetry today?
-- Jim Harris


A:
Poetry has never counted for much in modern civilization. Maybe that's because poetry, at its best, is primal, which is to say, neither very modern nor very civilized. And that, of course, is why we need it so badly. Language has a secondary function -- to communicate -- and a primary function -- to reveal. Poets are in the business of revelation, they operate in the psyche, not the marketplace; in the incandescent imagination, not the domesticated intellect. So, I'm sincerely flattered that you consider my novels to be big poems. Thanks.

There's a plethora of pale, juiceless poetry being produced today, as well as some pretty vile spews, but if you want to take a thrilling ride on the language wheel, you can read Jim Harrison's collection, "After Ikkyu," or "The Chicken Without a Head," in Charles Simic's book, "Return to a Place Lit by a Glass of Milk." Then, too, there are the song lyrics of Leonard Cohen.


Q: I have been trying to apply Tom's "Joy, in spite of everything" attitude and I find it very difficult; I believe it's a process, a goal. It seems to me that the characters that have this attitude, it comes naturally, they don't have to work at it. My question is, do you personally have to
work at it, or is it just an ingrained part of your personality? Have you ever been disappointed that you chose not to find "Joy, in spite of everything"?-- Pat Newman


A:Essentially, "joy in spite of everything" amounts to a kind of defiant attitude, a refusal to be victimized by events over which one has no control. It reflects the belief that life is too short to be wasted in the anger or lamentation that easily could be generated by the era or area in which one, by circumstance, happens to reside. We must recognize the injustice and suffering that abounds in the world and do everything we can to alleviate it, yet in the same instant insist on having one hell of a good time.Some individuals do seem to possess an innate ability to be simultaneously caring and carefree, but most of us have to work at it. It's easier for me now than it used to be, though I still struggle with it, finding myself tested, for example, every time an evil fruitcake like Mad John Ashcroft opens his nazified yap.

A clarification from Tom:

In answering a question from Pat Newman, I said that "joy in spite of everything" was the expression of a defiant refusal to be victimized by external events. Then I confessed that for myself that attitude is sometimes tested by the words and deeds of men such as John Ashcroft.

Now it has occurred to me to point out that "joy in spite ofeverything" also amounts to a recognition that all existence is really cosmic theater,and therefore ought never to be taken too seriously. From thatperspective, John Ashcroft is merely another actor playing out his role. Sure,Ashcroft wants to turn America into a Christianized Iran with himself as Ayatollah, but as dangerous and reprehensible as that is, it's his role, and that rolemay well be an essential part of the ongoing drama. From the Tao, we learnthat light and darkness are perpetually revolving, and we cannot have one without the other. From a cosmic perspective, it's a self-righteous mistake toalign oneself with the light against the dark, to always think in terms of"us" against "them". By all means, vigorously oppose Ashcroft andeverything he stands for, but resist the trap of becoming attached to that opposition, bearing in
mind that it is also part of the existential drama -- and its ultimate purpose may be to help keep the "story" interesting.
-- Tom Robbins

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